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Ahh, this inspired an entire piece of writing for me because it feels like such a beautiful tribute to your grandma, to you, and to the way I’ve come to see you over time.

Maybe the greatest gift she gave you was permission. Permission to be vast. To take up space. To imagine freely. To create without ever needing to justify why. Not “be useful.” Not “be productive.” Just be. And now you give that same permission to your kids every single day.

You don’t have to chase monuments or some massive, visible legacy, because you already build rooms. Rooms people walk into and immediately soften. Rooms where shoulders drop, laughter comes easier, and everyone feels warm and safe and like they can finally exhale. That kind of presence changes lives more than money ever could.

Everything you described making with her doesn’t feel like memory. It feels like origin. Like foreshadowing. Like all the pieces of who you are were already there waiting. The workbench wasn’t just a table in a basement. It was the first place you learned you could build something out of nothing. So of course you build worlds now. Homes. Atmospheres. Belonging.

The paint, the thread, the scraps, the glue, all of it wasn’t just crafting. It was imagination being told it was allowed to exist. So of course you raise kids who create without fear, who try things, make messes, and know they’re safe to become whoever they’re becoming.

Those quilts feel like the beginning of something too. Soft architecture. Warmth you could wrap around someone when life got cold. And now you do that same thing emotionally. You make people feel held.

And the lanterns. I love that image so much. Little lights placed gently along the dark so no one loses their way. You still do that. You’ve kind of become the lantern for a lot of people.

And the records playing while you sang might be my favorite part, because the music was never separate from your life. It wasn’t performance or a stage. It was just the heartbeat underneath everything. The thread tying it all together. And it still is. Your music feels like a vinyl current running through you while you’re being a mom, a daughter, a wife, a friend. Like everything you are grew out of that basement, out of that time she gave you, out of love that simply said, “Stay. Make things. I’m here.”

That’s inheritance. Not money or assets. Time. Attention. Care. Creation. Presence. The kind of wealth most people spend their entire lives trying to buy and never find. And you carry it so naturally.

I’m always genuinely impressed by you, and honestly inspired by the way you move through the world and the environment you create for the people you love. You’re already giving your kids an inheritance that can’t be measured and can’t be lost, and that feels bigger than anything else.

And the beautiful part is, all of this is exactly why I believe your career is going to thrive. Because your music isn’t something you do. It’s something you already are.

Love you, friend and so glad you wrote another piece. Always inspired by you. 🫶

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